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Allegations Of Abuse?
Prevention &Survival

jodee kulp allegation trainer Judy Wadsworth and Jodee Kulp trainers for Allegations in Foster, Adoptive and Kinship Care judy wadsworth

by Jodee Kulp and Judy Howell Wadsworth
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Some Positive Steps
in Handling an Allegation

Our background and our circumstances may
have influenced who we are, 
but we are responsible for who we become.

Document - Keep the facts straight

In an emotional situation how do you remember . . .

WHAT HAPPENED? WHEN?

  • Start a notebook immediately -- A bound notebook that pages cannot be torn out in. Do not use a computer or 3 ring binder for notes that you want to submit for legal review.
    - write everything down you are told about the process
    - reconstruct a summary as best you can - you will be able to find data in your checkbook, on calendars, notepads, e-mails
  • Use only evidence that applies to the case
  • If you need to write something down emotional, write it on a separate sheet of paper. Then read it when you are settled down and transcribe the facts into your bound notebook
  • Keep a notebook by the phone
    - record times calls are made, who you talk to and quotes from key sentences
    Do not be afraid to take notes or tape record conversations

Just the facts need to go into your data notebook - if you need to write about your feelings do that someplace else!

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Get Families at Risk a 416 page guidebook to
help you and your family through these complex times.

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the world doesn't stop for your grief.

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It is not intended to convey legal, educational, medical or professional advice. We recommend you find your own local professional who can work with you.
 

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Making connections to promote restoration and renewal for families and children in crisis and trauma to bridge understanding of FASD. This site does not replace professional medical, legal, nutritional or educational counsel. 
 The information contained within this website are ideas that have worked for families with FASD members and you must use common sense, your intimate knowledge of your child, professional advise and safety
in making appropriate decisions.  
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